Filial Piety

 

Yesterday’s mass reading:

“But you are not to be called ‘teacher,’ for you have one Teacher, and you are all brothers. 9 And do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and he is in heaven. 10 Nor are you to be called instructors, for you have one Instructor, the Messiah. 11 The greatest among you will be your servant. 12 For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted. – Matthew 23:1-12

“Do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and he is in heaven.”

So much for “family values.”

This does not mean we must not use the word “father”; that would be trivial. It means we are all brothers and sisters. If any one of us finds themselves in the role of parent or teacher, we must understand this as a temporary contract between equals. And it brings with it an obligation to act in the best interests of the one temporarily in our charge.